Have you tried HD-idle? Its in the repository. I've read a comment that said you should set the drive parameters to noatime,nodiratime for it to be effective.
Also, this is a good read on disk drive life expectancy. it an article google wrote about their actual drive life expectancy.
http://static.googleusercontent.com/ext ... ilures.pdfI also have a sata drive that's been on for over 10000 hours. The life expectancy for these things is well over 10,000 operating hours. Mine has an annual failure rate of 0.32% per year assuming 2500 hours of operation per year, but after reading google's paper, I think that if the drive survives the first 3 months, the failure rate is even less than that.
Google didn't see a big correlation between run time and elevated failure rates, but there stuff is on most of the time.
Tom